We all have them… small projects on the to-do list for
around the home that never seem to get done, what for all the distractions that
life keeps us busy with… namely our children.
But, hold on just one second! What if we actually got the
kids involved with some of those projects? After all, it
would keep their little hands busy for awhile, you’d be able to check something
off your to-do list for a change, and (best of all) you’d be creating memories.
Here are a few ideas from HA Construction for including your kids in home
projects, and bonding with them in new ways.
Simple Tasks
Start with the easy things to help your child build
confidence. Give him or her little projects around the house such as:
- Tightening screws in the door knob
- Replacing lightbulbs (a great learning opportunity on electricity and ladder safety)
- Changing batteries in the smoke detectors
- Replacing the furnace filter
Paint a Room
Number one on the “get your kids involved” list is painting
a room together. Yes, it’s messy. And, yes, they won’t have the skills of a
professional painter. But you will have a blast doing it together and (bonus!)
the dining room will finally get done!
Start by removing all the excess furnishings and completely
covering the floor in drop clothes – you certainly don’t want to take any
chances with small hands likely to splatter paint in any direction. To prevent
tracking paint into other rooms, buy disposable plastic shoe covers (they look
a lot like shower caps that go over your shoes). Instruct your kids to put them
on when they’re in the room painting, and take them off right at the door if
they have to leave the room for any reason.
Now that you have the messy aspects of the project taken
care of, show your kids how it’s done. For older children, let them help you
tape things off. And most all kids can handle a roller and the lower portion of
the wall while you do the trim. But before you commence painting the “right”
way, take some smaller brushes and draw/write on the walls with the paint.
Write your names, draw pictures of each other, outline each other on the wall –
anything to make it loads of fun before the serious part begins. It wouldn’t
hurt to have a little paint fight if they get board later in the process
either.
Landscaping
What kid doesn’t love getting his hands dirty? While we’re
not talking the perfect placement of stone for a beautiful walkway, there are
many parts of the landscaping process that your kids would love to get involved
in. Give her a trowel and tell her where to dig holes for your annual flowers.
Have him help you spread mulch around before the fall frost. Take her out once
a week with you and have a contest to see who can pull the most weeds.
You can even take your kids to the plant nursery with you so
that they can each pick out their own special plant to add to your landscape
beauty. It will be theirs to care for and watch grow. What a special way to get
them involved.
Build Something
For younger kids, take on a small project such as a window
planter or bird house. Older kids and teens do well to help with larger
projects, such building a shed. Have them help to spot you on the ladder when
you’re up high (even if you don’t need it), and hand you the tools you need –
both tasks make them feel important. There are also several ways your kids can
use tools to feel like they’ve accomplished something, without the large risk
for injury, including:
- Reading the bubble in the level for you
- Removing nails with a hammer
- Measure for you before you cut
- Use a manual screwdriver (great time to teach “lefty-loosy/righty-tighty”)
Creating Memories, too
Getting your kids involved with these activities is not just
about knocking them off the to-do list – it’s really about building memories
and teaching life skills. With that in mind, remember to be patient. Don’t put
too much on your child at once. Involving your children changes the purpose of
the project – it’s no longer about efficiency and perfection, but about your
kids. After all, we’re learning here!
It takes a lot of patience, so you’re going to have to
overcome the urge to snatch the hammer out of your daughter’s hand and do it
yourself. Learning takes time, so pick your projects carefully and utilize the
opportunity to build your child’s self-esteem – congratulate him on a job well
done (even if it doesn’t meet your standards!).
Finally, if you’re going to invite your kids to join you at
the hardware store, don’t bother telling them it will be fun – there is nothing
more boring than watching you go through paint samples or chose the right sized
screw. Instead, use it as a learning opportunity and then go do something fun
afterward, like playing at the park.
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